Toxic productivity and the need for sustainable rest

Arpit Bhayani

Arpit Bhayani

Jan 19, 2026 • 1 min read


Here’s something that doesn’t get talked about enough - there’s a version of productivity that doesn’t actually serve you. It feels like ambition or discipline, but underneath it is something different and toxic.

Toxic productivity is when rest starts feeling like failure. When you can’t sit through a meal without listening to a podcast. When a slow Sunday morning triggers guilt instead of peace.

Unfortunately, our culture often rewards this behavior. We celebrate the people who are always grinding, always hustling. It is just unsustainable.

Most of you are actually introspecting right now, and that’s good. Here are some signs worth noticing:

  • tying self-worth entirely to some output
  • feeling anxious when not being ‘useful’ or ‘productive’
  • forgetting what you do for fun
  • physically being unable to relax without feeling like you should be doing something else

‘Doing nothing’ is not the fix for it. It is all about recognizing that you are a human, not a machine. It is about doing things that matter. It is about prioritising things that matter. Fun fact: what matters to you can change over time.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is stop.

Arpit Bhayani

Principal Engineer II at Razorpay - building Agent Studio, Ex-staff engg at GCP Memorystore & Dataproc, Creator of DiceDB, ex-Amazon Fast Data, ex-Director of Engg. SRE and Data Engineering at Unacademy. I spark engineering curiosity through my no-fluff engineering videos on YouTube and my courses