Overcome Feeling Stuck By Prioritizing and Taking Action

Arpit Bhayani

Arpit Bhayani

Jun 17, 2026 • 1 min read


I have seen people purchase many books, bookmark endless links, and save a ton of papers, and yet end up feeling stuck and doing nothing.

Many are confused and completely unsure of what to choose first, and this stems from the fear of leaving something important behind. Here’s what I would recommend…

You just need to start with one. Have a strong bias for action and simply begin. Which one to prioritize is a personal choice, but it should align with what matters most to you right now:

  • something that helps with your current work,
  • something that supports your future plans, or
  • something you are simply curious about.

When you feel overwhelmed, pause and ask yourself: “Why should I spend time on this right now?” If you do not have a clear, strong answer, the default is no. Only move forward if you can truly convince yourself it’s worth it at this moment.

Remember, clarity is in saying no.

Hope this helps.

Arpit Bhayani

Principal Engineer II at Razorpay - building Agent Studio, Ex-staff engg at GCP Memorystore & Dataproc, Creator of DiceDB, ex-Amazon Fast Data, ex-Director of Engg. SRE and Data Engineering at Unacademy. I spark engineering curiosity through my no-fluff engineering videos on YouTube and my courses