The best engineers ask for help early and often. We all have blind spots - technical, architectural, and just plain human. I’ve lost count of the number of times a teammate’s quick input saved me hours of exploration, debugging, and a costly mistake in a couple of cases.
I believe reaching out isn’t a weakness - it’s how we move faster, build smarter, and grow together. When you ask someone for feedback, you’re not just improving your work - you’re building a bridge.
- you show respect for their experience
- you invite collaboration, not judgment
- you create shared ownership early
- you make it easier to call in help when things go sideways
- you remind everyone: we’re in this together
Don’t wait till you’re stuck or blocked to involve others. Pull them in early. It makes the work better, and it makes you better to work with. Everyone’s busy, but most people are happy to help - especially if you’ve already shown that you value their input.
Build trust before you need it. No one ships best software alone.