The Biggest Lie Startups Tell Engineers

Arpit Bhayani

curious, tinkerer, and explorer


The biggest lie startups tell during hiring is “We have a lot of problems, and you can pick whatever you want to solve.”

It sounds great. It plays directly to what we engineers love - autonomy, impact, and ownership. But here’s the reality - this almost never happens. When a startup says this, it usually means one of two things:

  1. A lack of clarity in leadership
  2. They’re just trying to lure you in

Even in the rare case where you get some freedom, your work still has to align with business goals, product timelines, and team priorities. You’ll likely be working on whatever the product needs immediately, which is okay, but …

Most of these companies are in constant firefighting mode, so you might never have time to pull off what you wanted to.

And honestly, if a company really lets you work on “whatever,” that’s a red flag. It signals a lack of direction, focus, or urgency. Good leadership doesn’t offer infinite choice, it offers clarity and purpose. There is always a north star that is being chased.

Please, do not fall for startups without looking under the hood. Assess the clarity of their roadmap, the strength of their leadership, and how decisions are made. Ask,

  1. What’s the team working on right now?
  2. What are the top priorities this quarter?
  3. How do you decide what gets built?

Don’t get sold on freedom, get sold on focus.

Arpit Bhayani

Creator of DiceDB, Staff Engg at Google Ads and Dataproc, ex-Amazon Fast Data, ex-Director of Engg. SRE and Data Engineering at Unacademy. I spark engineering curiosity through my no-fluff engineering videos on YouTube and my courses


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