Be someone others want to work with

Arpit Bhayani

curious, tinkerer, and explorer


Be someone others want to work with.

Beyond a point, your reputation determines how high you will go in the career ladder. And it takes months, sometimes years, to build one that truly matters.

The people who consistently grow, get trusted with important projects, and influence decisions aren’t always the loudest or most self-promoting. They’re the ones people want to work with, listen to, and trust.

Here are a few principles I’ve followed that might help you too.

  • be approachable and respectful
  • back your ideas with reasoning and data, not volume
  • follow through on your commitments
  • be honest, especially when things go wrong

You don’t need to build a personal brand, keep tweeting, or blogging to get noticed. Just do the basics well and consistently

  • deliver work on time, without surprises
  • understand your systems in and out
  • find ways to improve systems and processes
  • contribute meaningfully to design discussions
  • leave constructive comments on code reviews and design documents

The most important of all, share credit with the people who deserve it.

Reputation isn’t built overnight. It takes consistent effort over time, but the rewards compound - more opportunities, greater autonomy, and lasting impact.

Arpit Bhayani

Creator of DiceDB, Staff Engg at Google Ads and Dataproc, ex-Amazon Fast Data, ex-Director of Engg. SRE and Data Engineering at Unacademy. I spark engineering curiosity through my no-fluff engineering videos on YouTube and my courses


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